Let It Go Meditation

How Expectations Can Ruin Your Life

Have you ever stopped and wondered how an expectation can ruin your life?  Or why something didn’t turn out the way that you thought it should.  It is more likely that you’ve decided the outcome to be a certain way, and if it is not, then there is a price to pay.  In truth, who is paying the price?  

You are the one paying the price with a price tag that is way too much.  


Pondering Expectations

What does your life look like if you let go and released any expectations? Close your eyes for a moment and enter a scene:  you’re invited to go to a dinner party,  you know one person,  you are not aware of the menu,  and when you arrive you see that everyone is dressed in a costume. Close your eyes and envision this particular setting. How do you feel?  Do you feel welcome Do you feel uncomfortable? Do you feel embarrassed?  Do you feel like an outcast?

Why do you feel this way.  Maybe you were completely okay, you are super comfortable in your own skin and this is awesome; therefore, you don’t care- let’s party on/ let’s have a great time.  However, what if you feel extremely out of your comfort zone, unsure what to do and this is not what you expected.  Do you stay or do you  leave?


Write it Out (Discovery of SElf)

Heart's Tune

Rainbow Heart @ Magical Blessings

Please take 3 – 5 minutes to write  about your feeling with this writing prompt.

If I let go of controlled expectations then will happen…


Letting Go Of Control

Yes, essentially this is ultimately about letting go of control, and just being happy with whatever comes.

Let’s surmise that you stayed and you had a great time. Why, because you let go of the final outcome. You were happy with what was happening around you no matter what,  you have an incredible sense of self worth and did not care what others thought about you. Or rather you allowed yourself to just go with the flow.

What would happen if you allow that to be throughout every aspect of your life?  As children we are given first this and then that. Our parent(s)/ grandparent(s)/society have preconditioned us into human behavior;  in order to receive; you must do ABC to receive XYZ. Thus, this has created expectations.


Write it Out (Discovery of Self) 

Heart's Tune

Rainbow Heart @ Magical Blessings

Please take 3 – 5 minutes to write  about your feeling with this writing prompt.

When I let go of control I can…


Go With the Flow

I have personally discovered from my own Self.  That it was not necessarily the outcome or the expectations that was causing me grief within mySelf.  It was the small self ego monstrosity, that would rear its ugly essence. It was a lack of faith and trust as a whole. It is about allowing  your Higher Self to connect to spirit in a trusting manner and holding onto the faith that all will work out as it shall.  It is the disallowance of an idea that was preconceived and notion to be as such. In other words just let it go, go with the flow and allow Divine Spirit to bring you the most Miraculous, Grandeur moment. Or what I like to remind myself of when I get into the when I get into an expectation:  “Let It Go, Let it Flow…” – Natasha Botkin 

Connect with me to flow into Let it Flow Meditation or Discovery of Self with the Shiny Gold Stars Guidance.  





Oodles of Love & Magical Blessings,



Natasha Botkin Magical Blessings Healing CenterNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Behavioral Energy Healer, is a #1 international bestselling author and Shiny Gold Star Quest creator.  Natasha uses healing soul psychology energies when working with youth and adults by releasing patterns & blocks to help them empower themselves.  Connect with me https://magicalwellness17.com

In Her Power Image

Eeek! My Interview is Live

Eeek! My Interview is Live

Reclaiming Your Power Image

In Her Power by Natasha Botkin

Eeek! Was my first reaction to an interview. For years I would not admit, acknowledge or state that I am a domestic violence survivor. Part of my journey is the Reclamation of me and to openly and honestly discuss this for all to hear.  Due to what I went through I developed a massive trust issue.  What I discovered is that I did not trust me, did not feel safe and so much more.

Slowly, I have begun reclaiming me.  I am a wonderful illuminating treasure filled with the most valuable divine essence.  The most beautiful of all is remembering who I am.  There is not right or wrong way to your own discovery and the notion of what works is a beautiful moment in itself.  I am thankful for all that I have learned.  Yes, you read that correctly, I am thankful.  I now know and able to understand and identify what is a trigger and what this means for me.  As with any trauma there is much more growing and healing.  The biggest was forgiving myself for being lied to.  The Art of Forgiveness

 Please enjoy this interview

Indomitable Women Welcomes Natasha Botkin 


Here is a previous blog describing this: Reclaiming Your Power

If you would like to learn more about reclaiming your power or how to regain yourself after trauma or domestic violence please feel free to contact me: https://magicalwellness17.com

Much Love, Much Light and Magical Blessings,


Natasha Publicty PhotoNatasha Botkin, Master Teacher & Intuitive Energy Healer and #1 International Best Selling Author and creator of Reclaiming Your Power, Empower Your Words and Heart Meditative Writing. Gifted with the divine wisdom of guiding one transforming heart and soul with passion, creative play and healing energies.  Natasha works closely with  Youth & Adults  by using all the elements (Fire, Water, Air, Earth, Spirit) from a multi-dimensional healing of energies releasing patterns and blocks by helping one to shine their light and empower them.  Connect with me https://magicalwellness17.com


Beautiful Treasures

by Natasha Botkin

Farmers Market Bouquet 4.9.16A lovely lady created the most beautiful flower bouquet just for me.  I asked her for 3 types of tulips and had no expectations as to the outcome.

Shortly afterwards, I walked into a local store and saw the massive crowd; I began internally pouting about my gorgeous flowers wilting in my vehicle.   Trying so hard to make my way through the crowds of people only to see a long maze waeving throughout the entire store.

When a lady stopped me in mid pout!  This beautiful woman was sitting down staring at all of her treasures.  She holds one up for me to see.  I cannot take my eyes off of her, and barely notice the treasure.  She is radiating a true light that is so beautiful to behold.  Dancing with her sweet nature and love of pretty things.   “My you are a pretty one-bet ya get that a lot.”  I smile and say, “Yes, I do, beauty is not just on the outside.  You are so amazingly beautiful.  Thank you for helping me slow down to see your treasures.”

With that she smiles a gorgeous grin, all the while humming.  We sit for a moment or two, I am not sure as to how long.  She is so happy and free.  A calm peace returns amongst the crowded space and I leave with the same happiness.

May you be able to slow down and enjoy your beautiful treasures!

Much Love, Much Light and Magical Blessings,