The Art of Forgiveness

 the art of FORGIVENESS

When we take a look at the art of forgiveness we can begin by using the the definition of forgiveness is being ready and willing to forgive.  Upon further investigation this means: it is safe to deal with. Forgiving is feeling safe enough to deal with a circumstance.  An important factor is the sanctity of feeling anodyne, and we all deserve to feel secure; when one feels unsafe, forgiving is not easy art form.

When one looks even deeper, it is about trust.

Can I trust you?

 More importunately can I trust myself? 

Seems simple enough, and yet this is a daunting forum that can feed the fear and craft havoc that destroys our miracle that the divine has created. 

It does not matter who you are,

when you do not trust you,

who can you trust?

The Art of Forgiveness

This seems unpretentious and it is, unfortunately the ego generates doubt and whenever there is doubt, there is lack; this breeds the ultimate mischievous fear.  Fear can destroy the essence and, distress us to the opposite of what the divine has designed for us.

In truth it is the fear the keeps us unsafe, the ultimate mischief of liars and this creates the state of confusion; as confusion is a manner of lying on the deepest level.

Our souls and heart were not designed to distress us; that is the ultimate lie that one can exonerate from the depth and layers of the lies that Bind.

The divine miracle is love, and where the light can seep, the dark can be swept away and love expounds all

We Are All Connected

How would you like to pass this onto your child or grandchildren? Unconsciously this happens more often than not, and the art of forgiveness can help bolster the essence of the divine.  Bringing us to the light in the most majestic manner.

How can we create a way to be unstoppable of the fear? Recognize it and do not stress; allow the light to shine its way; the light will help one to connect with the divine purpose of living the way that God intended.

Children come into the world so pure and filled with love and light.  We are the teachers all united as one.  Let’s us stand and unite!  Unite turned around is   un-tie: the lie that placates our histories.  Fortunately, we can teach our children and undo what has been done.  Once they are shown; they can lead the way to the light and healing is through the light of forgiveness.  Trust in yourself to guide our children in the universal law and art of forgiveness by forgiving you and then let us lead the way.

They deserve it.

  You deserve it.

We deserve it.

We are safe, love, light  and are all connected as one divine miracle.

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Why You Should Revel in Your Headstrong Daughter

Recently I witnessed why You should revel in your headstrong daughter:

The farmer had pre-made 1 pound batches that I was not interested in; and as I was awaiting for an answer from the farmer, her daughter stepped in, “Aww, Mom really sometimes, the customer is right; she just wants half a pound of asparagus; money is money and if we do this, she’ll remember and come back; we need good costumers.”  This young lady is about 16 years old; some of the more mature ladies were off put by her statement.

A few moments later, I encounter a “headstrong” female toddler who wanted to bounce her ball to see how high it went. As I tried to stop the ball from rolling into the street, her parents stood looking on in an embarrassed state. I smiled and said, “Please do me a huge favor; love her strength and independence; she is a most blessed joy and one day will empower others.”  The uncle smiles and nods his head in agreement with a quick flash I add, “Dance with her; and she will dance with you.”

Bring It On

I knew that I was being reminded of who I once was.  My family did not relish in the favor of my independent strength; rather I was the last of the adage that children should be seen and not heard: the rendered statement-sit down and shut up echoing throughout my childhood.

Here is why we should enable our willful girls.  Those determined girls blossom into powerful ladies.  They are a blessing and a joy, and help others to shine in their power.

There was once a time where women were seen and not heard; in fact, there are many cultures and countries where this still occurs.

Personal Reflection

Reflect back to a moment to when you wish you had you communicated with your true voice and spoke from an authentic place, but then you did not.  Now look back to a moment when you expressed your true, authentic, powerful voice and how this felt.  It does not mean shouting or being aggressive.  This means to feel empowered and enabled.  Being able to say what you feel and not forgiving for having made a statement that resonates with your heart and soul.

An unwavering girl knows her own power and voice and she is not afraid to use it.  How is this a bad thing? Or rather is it, because you wanted your idea to be the voice of reason as the “adult” or the one in charge; hence that is a control aspect.


Step back for a moment; disempower the willfulness of a girl and now she is complacent; her voice unheard and not expressed; her shine has dulled and another has control over her.  Do you wish that to be your daughter?  This is what begins to happen in the sense of domestic violence.  DV can be emotional, mental, physical, sexual and so forth.  Do you wish to teach your daughter to release her power to another, dull her shine and diminish her sparkle or worse her life?

This is not to say that everyone should be voicing whatever pops into their thoughts, that is where wisdom comes into play.  Teach our youth, our girls how to use their voice in a positive manner. Because if they are brash and harsh this can swing into a whole other manner of aggression and isolation.  


Let’s teach our girls to use their empowered voices. Let’s help enable their strengths and authentic selves


Most importantly let us teach them their value and worth. 


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When a person feels worthy and value this helps illuminate them to a who new light and level to help this world.  Let us provide this manner for our “willful” girls who blossom and grow into amazing powerful young women.


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Reclaiming Your Power

In my previous blog Unclearing the Path of the Past, I am describing a defining moment of releasing the past. In one moment I mention that I was held by the shame and guilt of a mistake. It is not easy for me to stand here and make this statement:

I am a survivor of Domestic Violence.

The mistake that held me hostage–is me.


How could this be true?

Awwww, but it is. It took me 8 years to admit that I am a survivor of DV. It was a secret, a hidden secret. Shhh, “no one is to know, they will think less of me” is what my negative mental chatter would preach to me over and over. This helped keep me away from my power, and any attempt to be in my power would placate the essence of the hidden notion, and this created a way to dull my sparkle.

Years had passed, and few knew of this facet. A co-worker sees me crying, “Honey, what is wrong?” I screwed up, I was so scared of what had previously happened to me, that I sent what is my true love (not abusive love) away from me. It was the last thing I desired, and when I tried to apologize, the hurt I saw in his eyes bore deep into my soul. I deserve to have a real love, and yet those voices told me that I did not. This even kept me in an unhealthy work situation. All because of the mistaken shame and guilt that was dulling my shine, and the preconceived notion that people often rant, “What’s wrong with her,She could just leave.” Society’s judgmental notion of my greatest fear:

I have no voice, and I am unvaluable.  

I was hiding, from the shame and guilt of the DV, and yet I am a strong, intelligent woman; how could this possibly happen to me. They will think less of me. This began my dark secret and when I sent my Beloved away, I went into a darker state of being.  They can’t know: They will think less of me. A rant of my fears of a family who told me to sit down and shut up, I have nothing to say, and one day I did.  The Sound of my silence lessening my voice, my worth.  I was the good girl and did as I was told; I surrendered to the ill ways of the fear.  

My heart & soul calling out for me to Dive Deep, “Go deeper than ever before: go to the nucleus.” Dive I did, and when I rose to the surface, what was shown was beyond anything that I have ever seen. So, many past lives danced in front of me showing me where the lies of confusion began; all of these creating an entagnled & intertwined state of being. Forgiveness for all and especially forgiveness towards myself. I am stepping into another light, another state of being. They helped show me that others would benefit?  Once I saw it in that manner; it was too selfish to keep to myself.

This needs to shine in our world!

I am able to feel My inner peace and power.

the serenity of divine grace pulsing through my heart and soul: my true authentic voice returning to this manner of God’s Soul deep within me; I am one with he. 

I am able to forgive me; By forgiving me, the ultimate healing began

I am free.

I have the most magnificent voice.  

Most of all

I am valuable.


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You do not have to be a DV survivor to be provided the benefits and healing.  There are so many things that can dull one’s sparkle: any relationship, unhealthy work environments, society and so forth.  Everyone deserves to sparkle and shine,   to be in their true authentic power, and to know their inner power in a divinely graceful manner of a deep inner peace.

Let me guide you into your brightest Beaming State of being.    

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